Gospel Principle:
    He that hath the spirit of contention is not of me, but is of the devil, who is the father of contention. (3 Nephi 11:29)

Review the following videos:

Refrain From Anger

Anger is an Indication of Weakness


Review the following scriptures:
  • "contention is not of me, but of the devil" (3 Ne 11:29-30)
  • "cease to contend one with another" (D&C 136:23)
  • "ye will not suffer that your children...fight and quarrel one with another" (Mosiah 4:14-15)
  • "only by pride cometh contention" (Proverbs 13:10)
  • "he that is slow to anger is better than the mighty" (Proverbs 16:32)
  • "Satan doth stir up the hearts of the people to contention" (D&C 10:63)
  • "cease from anger and forsake wrath" (Psalms 37:8)
  • "only by persuasion, by long-suffering, by gentleness and meekness, and by love unfeigned" (D&C121:41-44)
  • "a soft answer turneth away wrath" (Proverbs 15:1)
  • "love ye your enemies" (Luke 6:35)
  • "even as Christ forgave you, so also do ye" (Colossians 3:13)
  • "turn the other cheek" (Matt 5:39)
  • "be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath" (James 1:19-20)
Review the following talks:
Family Home Evening Ideas:
Please review the following resources for family home evening lessons and pick one that is appropriate for your family situation:
  • Contention lesson (source: Family Home Evening Resource Book)
  • Responding to Challenges in Marriage (source: Marriage and Family Relations Study Guide)
  • Resolving Conflicts in Marriage (source: Family Home Evening Resource Book)
  • Controlling Our Anger (source: Preparing for Exaltation Teacher's Manual)
  • Forgiveness Quiz (source: Friend magazine)
  • Lesson Idea - "All Bottled Up"
    • Take a can of soda (not opened) and pass it around to each person of the family. For each thing/person that has made them angry recently, they get to shake the can. Once everybody has had their turn, go outside and open the can (wear appropriately clothing).
    • Discussion: How might this activity and what happened be related to anger?
    • Go through the selected verses mentioned above and some of the quotes from the talks and discuss how anger displeases Heavenly Father. 
    • Discuss different ways in which we can “diffuse” our anger so that it doesn’t get “bottled up” where it becomes uncontrollable.

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